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Bandwidth
It’s been a while! Over the past few years, I’ve had trouble juggling everything on my plate. I’ve felt exhausted, overwhelmed, anxious and completely used up. Keeping up with my little ones and the stresses of our large, blended family have taken all of my bandwidth. I just haven’t had anything else to give. My cup has not runneth over. So, this site has been dormant for quite a bit. But, I’m back, baby! After a pandemic, a massive move, a 4 year court battle, a death in the family, troubled teenagers, marital issues, health problems, mental health issues, and all of my children’s events and milestones and activities, I…
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FKA twigs talks about her abusive relationship with Shia LaBeouf
This sounds familiar! Love Bombing at first. Thinking you’ve found Prince Charming. Then you move in together and everything changes. It was the same with me and Vincent. This is typical of abusive men. They wait until you’ve invested in them in some way to start the abuse. And then…it just gets worse. FKA twigs describes her abusive relationship with Shia LeBeouf
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Kyra’s Law
Kyras Law has been introduced into the New York Assembly. If passed, it will change the Family Courts and help women and children affected by domestic violence that are trying to divorce and escape from their abusers. We need to get this passed in all states. Why Kyra’s Law will change Family Courts
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Stop Abuse Campaign
The Stop Abuse Campaign aims to protect children from the ACEs (Adverse Childhood Experiences). Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs), as defined by the Centers for Disease Control, are ten childhood traumas that include all forms of child abuse, neglect, and domestic violence. They are such profound traumas that they predispose children to a lifetime of poorer physical, mental, social and financial health. Visit Website
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A Small Victory
We’ve been divorced 6 years. Child is 6. I have 80% custody. Vincent gets every other weekend. However, he has filed for more timesharing in the past (we settled on simply reducing his child support obligation to about 1/3 of what he should be paying) and continues the “parental alienation” narrative in every motion he files against me. There are many. We’ve been in court for the last 2-1/2 years on contempt/ enforcement matters. I won on almost everything! He was found in contempt or enforcement was granted for not allowing phone calls between me and the child, for desparaging me to the child, for denying me holiday time with…
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FACTs
FACTs (Families Against Court Travesties, Inc.) is an organization I’ve used here in Palm Beach County for my endless court battles with my narcissistic ex. It was formed by the South Palm Beach Chapter National Organization of Women. The volunteers attended my hearings and took notes. Their presence in the courtroom typically makes judges and attorneys be on their best behavior. FACTs
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Do It Yourself Family Law
Beth is a great resource for people trying to navigate the Family Courts. You can message her on her Facebook page with your questions and she will post them to her main page with her response so they are anonymous. She also offers research and coaching services. Do It Yourself Family Law
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Evan Rachel Wood’s Testimony to Congress About Sexual, Domestic Abuse
We need to BELIEVE VICTIMS! Evan Rachel Wood’s testimony to congress about sexual, domestic abuse
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Documentary on Narcissistic Abuse
This is an excellent documentary on Narcissistic Abuse. Spot on. Narcissistic Abuse
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One Mom’s Battle
One Mom’s Battle is an excellent resource for anyone that finds themself divorcing a narcissist and navigating the Family Courts. Tina has a great website and Facebook page with a wealth of information and educational packets that can be sent to your judge, anonymously. One Mom’s Battle